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EJACULATORY INCOMPETENCE OR RETARDED EJACULATION – THERAPY

Posted under Men's Health-Erectile Dysfunction by admin

Any of these conflicts can cause a suppressed anxiety about the man’s ability to perform sexually which, in turn, stimulates the brain sex centre to send messages which damp down, or inhibit, the ejaculatory reflex in the spine.

Most of the men can ejaculate when they masturbate and some do this to obtain release from sexual tension. This ability is the basis of therapy.

The aim of therapy is for the man’s sexual partner to pleasure him and, by masturbation, bring him to orgasm and ejaculation. In this way, with a helpful partner, he is able to escape from his psychological ‘fix’.

The first step in correcting the sexual dysfunction is for the couple to learn about normal sexuality. As with premature ejaculators, this is done in joint discussions with trained therapists and by the exercise programme described earlier.

Usually the therapist suggests to the couple that they have sexual intercourse so that the wife reaches orgasm, if she so wishes. Then the couple are instructed that the wife is to pleasure the man, stimulating him sexually, until he wants to be masturbated. She then stimulates his penis and genital area in whichever way pleases him most, either with her hand or mouth or with a vibrator. In this way he is able to reach orgasm and ejaculate in a way which is neither threatening nor causes anxiety.