HOW TO DO THE EXERCISES FOR SELF-MANAGEMENT OF ANXIETY: DIFFICULTIES IN ATTAINING RELAXATION OF THE MIND

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It is extraordinary how people tend to give up even before they have started. “Relaxing the body, yes, I can do that; but relaxing my mind, that is impossible; that is why I have come to you.” I hear this almost daily. Yet experience has shown that anyone who can achieve physical relaxation can likewise attain the sensation of relaxation of his mind, if he will only try—and try in the right way.

A common difficulty is that our thoughts seem to become too active. We keep thinking of the problems of the day. All the small inconsequential things of our business keep running through our mind. In an effort to stop it, we consciously turn our thoughts to our home. But the same thing happens again, and we become exasperated by the flow of unwanted thoughts. This particular difficulty is more common in people who have well-developed obsessive traits in their personality. The main problem is the rather vivid awareness of these thoughts, the way they intrude into our consciousness and the way they disturb us. We cope with this difficulty simply by giving our thoughts full rein, as it were, and letting them wander where they will without us worrying about them. We do this in a way similar to what happens in our moments of reverie. In it we are idle, and we daydream. Our thoughts wander far and wide; but it does not disturb us, and we still remain completely relaxed in our mind. This is the approach to the difficulty of active thoughts while we are first trying to relax. We just let the thoughts go. There is no tension. We let them go easily, just where they like, and it does not worry us.

There is another approach to this same problem which is also a help. As we do our exercises we have to maintain the physical reaction of our body. We do this by thinking of different parts of our body in turn, and making sure that each is relaxed.

I can feel my legs relaxed, both of them relaxed.—My body, it is relaxed, and I just feel the weight of it.—My arms relaxed, my face smooth, my jaw loose, the muscles around my eyes relaxed, my forehead relaxed deeply.

The sequence is then repeated easily and leisurely, starting with the legs again. By this simple means the mind is kept occupied so that other thoughts do not get the chance to intrude and worry us.

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