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YOUR MARITAL HEALTH/WIVES’ SEXUALITY: DO YOU KNOW YOUR WIFE’S TYPE?
Posted under General health by adminThe Figurine
I’m just not as strong as he is. I need him. He takes care of me like no one ever could.
WIFE
This is the fragile wife. The husband feels he is protecting her, and she assumes this role by acting weak, even physically sick or emotionally insecure. Sexually, she conveys an image of breakability, holding back her own assertive and expressive tendencies for fear of “blowing her cover,” for fear of letting her husband see that she is not as fragile as he thinks or perhaps needs her to be.
The Searcher
I have watched every time a talk show has anybody on about sex. I have tried everything. My women’s support group says my husband is just a sexist pig. Maybe they’re right, but I’m not going to tell him. I’m used to him that way. I call him Mr. Piggy.
This wife has sensed that something is not well sexually and has turned to talk shows and sex manuals for direction. She talks more with friends about her sexual problems than she does with her husband. Most of her sexual knowledge is derived from friends, books, romantic novels. She assumes the role of Scarlett from Gone with the Wind, provoking, teasing, trying new techniques to encourage her husband to be Rhett and sweep her off her feet, up the stairs, and into bed. Unfortunately, some of these husbands continue not to “give a damn.”
The Super Wife
I never knew how strong I was as a person until I learned how strong we were as a couple.
WIFE
This is the model of the wife in a super sex marriage. She is aware of her sexual physiology, the forms and formation of her love map, understands the fourth perspective of sex, and integrates sex, love, and loving into her own unique and ever-changing role as a self-representing love partner.
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